Hustling With A Plan

From day one, I've always known the things in life that I wanted and the things I needed to change. I may not have known how I was going to get it but I always know what would make me happy.

With every POT I met, I "Hustled With A Plan", having a plan of action is so much more important than the romantic and spoiling part of the relationship.

Making sure that you leave the relationship better than you came into it is an essential rule in any type of relationship [ IRL relationships, friendships etc..]

Whether it was school books, new clothes, a down payment on an apartment, new furniture... #whatever it was. I already knew what I needed from my new SD from day one. The goals after that just to get it, if a POT doesn't see financially capable of helping obtain these goals, I kept it moving.

Of course, I never started asking for a list of items at first but I did let him know where I currently was in my life and where I was trying to get to. This can scare some men away and that's ok. I rather spend my time talking to those who can afford to help me in my pursuits than waste days, weeks, months trying to get something out of someone who doesn't have it.

In the beginning, I always try to find out as much as possible about the POT

* What he does for a living
* Does he own any businesses and property
* His real name (first and last)
* Is he married, does he have kids
* Where does he travel
* Recreational activities

With a little research, all of theses questions can help you establish an idea of what he makes and what kind of disposable income he actually has for his fun activities "such as yourself" :)

For Example: 

If you meet a POT who owns a business but has with a wife, 3 kids still in school and you want him to put you through school, buy you a car etc ....
Honey it's not happening, he might have money but it won't be yours. He has the responsibility of raising three young kids with his wife. He does want another baby to take care of he just want fun and  might be able to give you a few dollars here and there but how does this help your "Plan Of Action"

This is what I mean when I say #HustleWithAPlan, if you know from the get-go what you are trying to accomplish you will know it this type of relationship works for you or not.

If you are a young girl just trying to get here phone bill paid or some pocket money this might work for you, but if you need a lot more...you might just have to say NO to this one. Why waste everyone's time.

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At this stage in my life I want to pay off my car a bit more quickly, I have a business that is still in it's start up stage and constantly needs new inventory and I want to buy a house (the condo is getting a bit to small with a man living in it). Although I'm in a relationship with a successful awesome guy, I'm not married and I also want to obtain all these things without changing my current relaxed lifestyle and schedule. Some women would say I should take on more work but those are also the same women that walk around looking #hella stressed and weighed down ....making in a month what an experienced SB can get in a day if she #HustlesWithAPlan.

So, I am currently open to the right sugar relationship, as long as it doesn't interfere with my current relationship I think I'll be ok with it but I won't enter one unless I know my POT is willing and able to actually provide what I need in the long run because I always #HustleWithAPlan

NOTE: 
I read this article today -----> How To: Juggling IRL Boyfriends and Sugar Daddies
Have any of you read it before? 
Let me know what you think, also if you ladies are in IRL relationship and have an SD....please fill me in on how it's working out for you. 

I'll keep you posted, let's see what February brings...