"D" - Every Experience is a Learning Experience...

"D" was my first Sugar Daddy, but I didn't know it at the time.
I met "D" while in college and working 20 hour weekend shifts to help pay my tuition, I was 19 years old,.
"D" was a handsome , 32year old ( who looked 22), 5'7, 160lb ,white, CEO of a small Real Estate Firm in Manhattan "D" had major Networking Connections and what seemed to be the ultimate life. I was impressed that "D" was a such a young CEO...I mean his company actually made money and when he walked in the room everyone got nervous ...I loved it.

I met him through Angie a Hispanic girlfriend and classmate of mine at the time, Angie tried to hooked me up with her cousin Mario who worked for "D", but I was immediately attracted to the boss. The first time I met "D" he said "hi" and didn't seem to notice me much , On the other hand Angie's cousin immediately adored me but I had no interest in him what so ever,.
I felt awful but I kept excepting Mario's many invites in hopes of bumping into "D" again.

A week later "D" introduced himself to me again as he had never seen me before... I could have died....because I couldn't stop thinking about him.... I noticed he always had a bunch of women flocked around him at these events, dressed in designer clothes, stilettos ...etc They looked like they stepped right out of Cosmo.
I mingled and found out as much information as I could about "D" and the lifestyles of these women .... Models, Actresses, Waitresses my ass... I knew better...They were Sugar Baby's they all wanted "D" to be their Sugar Daddy.

Turns out he never remember them either because he was always wasted and high at his events but it was to late to turn back I already was mesmerized by 'D's" lavished lifestyle...I was hooked. The third time I saw "D" I was determined to leave a lasting impression.

But How,
As my luck might have it, an opportunity came about...... Mario offered Angie and I an invite to a major private event held at "D's" 7 bedroom loft the following week in exchange for our helping hand in the decorating and planning of the Event.

The day of the event, Angie and I showed up immediately after school, nails and hair freshly done.. we were both dressed in our usual slacks and cardigans......but that day I made sure I wore a major push up bra and unbuttoned my cardigan just enough for Mr. "D" to see extreme cleavage action...In my defense, I'm rather petite, 5'3 and the most I ever weighed was 105lbs. but I'm also very toned and have a nice figure which "D" couldn't see much of under my very unattractive school dress code in which we had no choice but to abide.

That day "D" again introduced himself to Angie and I as if he had never seen us a day in his life but for some odd reason...lol.. that day he couldn't take is eyes of me, every time I looked up he was staring, When "D" walked over, kissed my hand and asked my name i almost past out cold...I was so nervous. He started asking me questions about what I studied, what I liked to do and how I knew Mario. We ended up talking for hours. "D" asked if Angie and I were staying for the party that night and I said yes... I had brought my clothes with me and I just had to change.

"D" offered me the use of his room instead of changing with the staff and I had the option of leaving my garments and personal belongings there, then retrieving them after the party.

I accepted..I had butterflies when he placed his hand on he arch of my back escorted me to his room.

"D" left me there, and said if I needed anything just let him know.
I changed as fast as I could, double checking for wardrobe malfunction... then proceeded back to the event.

I couldn't find "D" right away but I saw Angie and Mario. They both wondered where I went...... I told them and that's when Mario informed me of what a womanizer "D" was and to watch out for him.
I could care less , I wanted him and I wanted to experience his lifestyle.
When I want something I go after it.
When "D" saw me I had his attention and the attention of most of the men there that night... but "D" wanted me all to himself and made sure he got it for the next ten months of our relationship.
I went from him not remembering I existed to escorting Mr. "D" to many major events where I met some of the most influential socialites in NYC, Valentines day trips to ski resorts and spending my 20th Birthday in Key West.

"D" and I are still friends to this day, but "D" is and will always be a womanizer, a drug addict and one of NYC most ruthless businessmen around.
But I enjoyed the experience and "Bed Talk" is a Motherfucker.....because I now have so much dirt on "D". Yes the same "D" who btw is now one of NYC's most successful Real Estate mogul's.
An although I would never use any of that against him or to blackmail him..(I'm not that kind of girl..I believe in Karma)..I do get the best job references ever and VIP invites to the hottest networking events in NYC.

Hence...... Every Experience is a Learning Experience...
Now on to the next.