The so called "Sugar Baby Life" is pretty new to me, I am a College Grad and I do have a career but I have been reading up on this type of lifestyle for years, and in doing my research I became obsessed with the idea of women from all walks of life being able to make it in this world without becoming a part of the "walking dead" by working a 9-5.
Don't get me wrong, I am no stranger to hard work, I just don't think life should be this hard...I'm not up for the "work as hard as you can and then die" routine that most people seem to be into.
I want to travel the world and experience all the things life has to offer. If I do decide to reproduce I want my children to have it all and I mean all..... father or not.
Growing up, The "father figure" in my life was my stepfather aka ASSHOLE.....He was so helpful and loving at first then when he moved my mother aka EMOTIONALLY FUCKED UP BITCH and I to the USA ...he changed. He was emotionally & physically abusive,and when he took all he could from my mother and she had no more to give him.....he walked out. Leaving her with an additional two other kids, stress, killer mood swings and a debt to income ratio that will take her an eternity of busting her ass to achieve financial freedom.
I never really trusted men, guess you can say I'm one of the damaged ones.
When I meet men, most say I have a face of an angel and I look so innocent but they have no idea what I have witness or been through.
I grew up in Queens, New York and we aren't from the projects or " The Hood" but most of my friends growing up were products of a broken home, hard working single mothers, financial hardship and some sort of abuse in their immediate family. During our rebellious years we all had our own demons but we were the only ones that understood each other.
My generation is just emotionally fucked up and becoming a statistic is not on my agenda.
I have very few friends and the individuals between the ages of 24 - 26 yrs old have a rapidly growing list of baby daddies and baby mamma's.
So like me or not I'm looking for a way out!!!
I have read books such as Sugar Daddy 101 by Leidra Lawson and How to marry a Multi-Millionaire by Ted Morgan and Serena Worth. These two books are very different but they are both "How- To Guides" to the lifestyle of a kept woman. I don't agree with everything these authors have written but most of the information has been very helpful in my research.
I recently moved back to New York, currently staying with the Emotionally Fucked Up Bitch..... but this blog serves as an outlet for me to share my journey as a young black female just trying to make it out.....
Hate it or Love it...... i'm determined to make it out.
2 comments:
I can totally relate to almost everything you said ~ so let's start with "products of a broken home, hard working single mothers, financial hardship and some sort of abuse in their immediate family" "walking dead [doing] a 9-5" and "my mother aka EMOTIONALLY FUCKED UP BITCH" ~ That's some deep shit!!!
That's THREE fucked up cycles to end: walking dead, single mom, and financial hardship! For the past couple of years, I have been blessed to not be among the "walking dead" but I am a single mother and seeking financial freedom!
In my quest of living in the "NOW" ~ I realized the men in my life can't give me the things I need, deserve and want! My energy is NOW directed towards making me HAPPY!! The "Sugar Babe Lifestyle" seems very rewarding and love me some "SUGAR"!! I am so looking forward to my adventure, Ms. Dionnne ;-)
For me, Life is about:Exploring, learning, & searching!
Your only young once and like Martin said "You got to ride the wheels of this mother fucker until the wheels falls off!"
I can totally agree with everything you said too!! I will definitely read your blog inside and out! I seriously need a SB mentor.
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